| The Wedding Officiant or Celebrant If you are getting married there is one person you cannot do without. That would be the person who will perform your wedding ceremony. This person may be a Priest or Minister or Rabbi if you are affiliated with a church or synagogue or whomever is recognized to perform such duties in any other religion. Many people do not attend church regularly or perhaps the couple are of different religious backgrounds. There can be any number of reason why a person other than a cleric attached to a particular church is needed or desired to perform the wedding ceremony. This is the case when an officiant or celebrant can handle the duties quite nicely. People who are permitted to legally marry a couple vary from state to state.In some states there are people who serve as Justice of the Peace who can perform weddings, in Florida and two other states those who are registered as Notaries perform marriages. Also Judges and boat Captains perform wedding ceremonies. I often hear someone in attendance say "Well I am a notary, I could have married them for nothing". This is true but remember you usually get what you pay for and many people (friends) would be willing to perform your ceremony. However performing a wedding ceremony is a little like any other performance. The officiant is "onstage" doing their performance and their ability and grace goes a long way to making your wedding a memorable experience. Be sure to pick someone who you feel comfortable with and who is easy to work with. There is also the creation of a ceremony. If I do say so it takes a bit of talent to create lovely, meaningful ceremonies and the longer one practices the trade the better one gets. Hopefully. I have been creating and performing wedding ceremonies for several years and I know that I do a much better job now than when I started. The ceremonies Which I create are of a higher quality than when I first started and wasn't sure of myself. I write all the ceremonies which are used at The Simple Wedding even those which Jorge perform. People have told me that when they were married their officiant wouldn't even give them a copy of anything which was said at their wedding. I give each of my couples a copy of their ceremony as a keepsake. If people copy it then I consider it a compliment. If you want to truly make your ceremony personal provide your officiant with special readings or vows to include in your ceremony. Invite friends or family to read bible verses or poetry doing the ceremony or have someone sing or play music for you. The more you put into your ceremony the more memorable it will be for you. And one other little thing...remember to schedule your officiant early on. You can't get married without someone to say "I now pronounce you husband and wife" And Congratulation....Donna |
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| TheSimpleWedding.com You're Getting Married, Congratulations In this section you will find articles relating to preparing for your wedding and hopefully hints and suggestions which can help make the planning, leading upto your wedding go more smoothly and also save you money. Some of what you will find is just general information whcih may be needed. |